People come into our life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you figure out which it is you know exactly what to do. When someone is in your life for a reason, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly, or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance, and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a Godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring this relationship to and end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done. The prayers you sent have been answered and it is now time to move on. When people come into our life for a season, it is because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real but only for a season lifetime relationships teach lifetime lessons.
Those things you must build on in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love that person or people anyway. And put why you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas in your life. It is said that love is blind, but friendship is clairvoyant.
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HelloManyikas the blog you wrote has a lot of feeling don't know if your going through some bad days but if you are remember theirs always a higher power to help ya through all that you have to do is open up to it i hope your having a good weekend and having some fun and stuff i'll tell ya you would make a good book writer an auther so to speak but anyhow take care and goodluckin all ya do Buddy Lee McCartney
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